2 posts tagged “wednesday”
OK, so now I am actually HOME and happily ensconced on my own couch having returned from Dave Lakhani's Speaker event. I originally met Dave via Motivational Speaker Kevin Hogan I am back in the saddle, drinking my beloved Peets coffee and looking at my social calendar. Yeah, yeah, with me, that means I may be headed out of town again. However, in the meantime, time to go out on some more dates.
What about you? Are you a single guy or single gal? Are you in a romantic sex relationship? and do you want to be?
How is your singles dating life going?
Well....It's Wednesday. What're your social plans for this weekend?
If you don't HAVE any social plans yet for this weekend, then it is time to get cracking! (Don't make me whump you upside your cyber head, ok?)
You can start with a fabulous Thursday night Girls Night Out for drinks. Go out with a group of your girlfriends, keeping the group to about 3-4 friends, so you are an approachable SIZED group for single men.
1. Sit at the little tables up near the bar where you are VISIBLE and there is ROOM to easily interact with you.
2. DO flirt with the men at the table next to you.
3. Go up to the bar one at a time to order and wait for your drinks, breaking yourself away from your female Herd so single men can SEE and PERCEIVE you.
4. While you are at the bar ordering and waiting for your fabulous cocktail, DO flirt with and lightly interact with the men there. Just a few flitting little sentences. "Oh that looks good! what is it?" "Oh pardon me, can I squeeze in here to order a drink? Thank you! Such a gentleman!"
Any light little flirting femmy words which you can get out of your mouth, DO!
And if you are thinking, "Oh April, but maybe I don't want to pick those men up...." and then you're thinking, "So, I won't flirt."
STOP THAT RIGHT NOW!
This is not about picking up THOSE particular men.
This is about YOU developing a HABIT of flirting to be successful with men wherever you go.
Go ahead and make plans today for tomorrow evening!
Have fun and Happy Dating!
All the best,
April Braswell
Dating Expert and Online Dating Coach
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Yup. Another Easy Dating Tip from your Romance Coach and Online Dating Coach. Perhaps you were worried that I had, eek, RUN OUT OF IDEAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ooooo noooooo, say it ain't so!!!
No worries. I got a million of 'em. With me, my clients are NEVER in a dating rut with NOTHING they can do on a Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday to GO MEET MORE PEOPLE and GET DATES or GET MORE DATES.
Yesterday I encouraged you to go try a YOGA class to get a romantic date.
Now, I mainly talked to MEN about doing this for meeting Da Ladies.
However, and here's your bonus freebie (free on top of free, is what? Uber Free?) because this blog is going to be an other Easy Dating Tip, other than about Yoga.
So, as a bonus, the thing is, ladies, YOU can take Yoga Classes to meet MEN, too. It's not just The Reverse of yesterday.
Part of the point of TRY SOMETHING new and stretching yourself (HAD to say it, we're talking about Yoga, right?) is to do something a bit different than what is 100% you you you SO you can meet someone WITH WHOM YOU HAVE CHEMISTRY.
If they are IDENTICAL to you, no chemistry, no fun, no surging passion. And I don't know about you, but I have GOT to have some surging PASSION in MY romantic relationships.
So ladies, if Yoga is not quite YOUR THING what you NORMALLY DO, then for YOU to take a Yoga class IS a stretch. And you might meet some nice man who is working on loosening up his hockey thighs.
That was my OVER DELIVERY part since this is a FREE Easy Dating Tips Advise Blog, where other Romance Coaches will actually CHARGE you for the pleasure of reading their articles so you could actually get a sense of would I want to work with YOU in particular. I've learned all about Over Delivery from MR. Over Delivery Himself, Motivational Speaker, Master of Persuasion, Kevin Hogan.
Now for the real point of this blog.
Yup. More MOVING. It's Summer Time. I am all about GETTING OUT, GETTING MOVING, Lookin Good! and GETTING HEALTHY.
JOIN AN ACTIVITIES CLUB.
Around here we have Absolute Adventures.
Join a Hiking Club.Cycling.Scrabblers who Blog. Kettlebelling. Ju Jitsu. Chi Gung. Tae Kwan Do. Kirate. TreadMillsRUs. Jogging. Power Walkers. Marathon Runners. Triathlon Training. Volley Ball. Beach Volley Ball. Volley Ball at the Park. Tennis. Baseball. Softball. Frisbee Golf. Swimming. Golf (where's John?). Basketball. Street Hockey (cause it's gonna be a long long summer without the NHL!).
See what I mean?
Even if you just try a day or two of each, that's enough for the next 6-9 months for your calendar. Because of course, with ALL of these Easy Dating Tips, you are going to mix 'em up and do some different things at different times, right?
Enjoy and have fun. Remember to bring your 35+ Sunscreen, Right? We've learned that from Dr. Helton who sure know all about Making Your Skin Beautiful without Surgery.
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach
