3 posts tagged “vegas”
As a Dating Expert who has both lived in a few different metro regions (New York, San Francisco, Los Angeles/The OC and Las Vegas) as well as worked with singles in a number of different cities both within the United States as well as around the world, one of the considerations a number of singles have is they want to meet, date, and mate with another single in their local area.
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Yes, you will see on some of the online dating niche sites, like those which are faith based for Muslims, Christian or Jewish Singles, is that the single will often make some statement like, “Distance is no object.” They think the are open to loving and partnering up with another single from any where in the country.
And in a manner, they are open like that. They are open to love coming to them from just about anywhere.
And then reality kicks in.
In order to really fall in love, to attract your Soul Mate and build a relationship, you actually need to open up and share each others lives together. Courtship which leads to marriage requires that you share your lives and actually BE with each other. So much of the dating style of the “Single – Never Married” folks is to either “hang” on the sofa and watch movies, while fun, eventually becomes boring, or to go do the consumer single dating style of going “out” all the time. Neither of these models is actually what we DO in the normal LIFE of a married couple/life partner relationship. When I coach singles who are divorced or widowed and we get to that part of my coaching system, they say, “OMG, April, you are brilliant! This is so true!” (I heard this today from one widowed lady.) And they can see how I approach relationship attraction and building form reality and not from some pipe dream which will never happen.
Real relationships are between human beings. There are some crass metaphors for describing this which I will refrain from using to illustrate my point.
When you are looking to attract love and build a life partner relationship, generally speaking, to do so you need to be in person. In order to experience that, this means you want to date another single who is local to you or at least in your metro area region. That can still mean that they live a few hours away from you. However, unless you travel to certain metro areas repeatedly for business, you want to keep your targets on another single who lives within a few hours of you, and not thousands miles away, which would be just fooling yourself.
Then you actually have a chance of attracting, meeting, and mating with your Soul Mate and developing the kind of lifelong love relationship which you are craving.
Happy Dating and Relationships,
Las Vegas Baby Boomer Dating Expert
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I met Las Vegas Hypnotist, Ken Owens, via Kevin Hogan 2 years ago. He is an excellent public speaker for Non Profits on their Communication Skills as well an entertaining hypnotist for corporate events. Part of what is so neat about Ken's approach, is he undergirds the entertainment factor with science and research about The Brain and how it functions. So his hypnosis CDs work in positive ways with how your mind thinks rather than running counter to it. Recently I acquired one of his CDs, am finding it so effective and helpful that I am now contemplating which of his CDs to get next. Check out his site. He is excellent. And also offers a free monthly newsletter with helpful tips.
Until then,
Happy Dating and Relationships!
April Braswell
Letting Go an Moving On: Divorce and Grief Recovery in Henderson and Las Vegas
yes indeed,
I am receiving a number of queries...
"April, I read your Connecting with April Braswell Ezine. is it true? are you moving to Las Vegas? and if so, WHEN?"
well, yes, Virginia, there IS a Santa Claus.
It's TRUE!
I am moving to Las Vegas!
I'm responding also to a number of requests for more seminars, in fact for men in their mid-twenties to mid-thirties. I have quiet a lot of them regularly reading my ezine. Thank you. And naturally they are wanting their dating and Intimacy Guaranteed questions answered. I will address that live in the Las Vegas seminars..
Meanwhile, thank you for all of your concern. YES I am super busy with packing to move to Las Vegas.
I will surface again SOON to attend Kevin Hogan's Influence Boot Camp.
In between, I am not taking any new dates and am packing lots of boxes and jettisoning STUFF!
On the romantic sex singles dating sphere, that is an excellent metaphor for all of us: jettison STUFF to make room for a new girlfriend or boyfriend.
How many bags and boxes can YOU donate to Goodwill?
All the best
and
Happy Dating!
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach and Dating Expert
