2 posts tagged “mother”

Would you please do me a favor?

This is going to be a short two parter.

1.  Little 77 second step to do today.

2.  And then another probably 35 second step to do THIS MONDAY, May 12th.

Who of you ladies wouldn't have your heart I mean MELT if your husband, your life partner thought YOU were "The Hottest" Lady in YOUR metro area?

Isn't that part of your hopes and dreams?

That no matter your age...

As you two get older together... that he will still see you with those besotted eyes of LOVE that sees YOU as "The Hottest." 

Yup.  Me, too.  It's the only way I'm going "off the market" again. 

Men, man up here.  Aren't YOU hoping, oh please, oh please, that the woman YOU are with is "Smokin' Hot."  That as you spend YEARS together, SHE still makes an effort to KEEP that HOT figure that raised your eyebrows and curled your toes when you first saw her?  That she takes care of her skin?  Cares for her hair and does these, yes, while maintaining a home for you and raising your kids, you stud muffin you, of course you sired some!

WELL!

Lisa McLellan is that lady and HER DH (dear husband), bless his masculinely leading male heart, submitted her photo, you know, the one by her profile with the CUTE doggie, for a contest for KIss FM's BOSTON'S HOTTEST MOM CONTEST - VOTE MAY 12th.

Today, please click here and REGISTER.  KIss FM's BOSTON'S HOTTEST MOM CONTEST - VOTE MAY 12th

Then on Monday, May 12th, I will give you the EASY instructions for how to CAST YOUR VOTE for LISA as Boston's HOTTEST MOM.  Cause we know she really is, inside and out, right?  I mean, she runs BabySitting, Baby Sitting, Child Care, Nanny Care and is able still to kiss boo boos.  Who would want to be trained by her for BabySitting, Childcare, and Nanncy Care skills and trust her with their precious children?

And yes, while you are at it, would you PLEASE send all of your friends, yes, the ones even in your cell phone over here to do this, too?

I want her to win.  For her DH who thinks HE is SUCH a lucky man because HE is a married to "Boston's HOTTEST Mom."

And, of course, he's right.

All the best,

April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach

Lisa McLellan

And here you thought that perhaps this Sunday you would get a break?  Pfff.  We think not.

So, I did mention this in my comments from my previous blog post.  I thought I'd better make it its OWN post.

Leverage Mother's Day while you are at the Mall shopping for women, ah, I mean, of course, a present for your mother.

One of the feminine attributes I encourage my female clients to leverage in wanting MASCULINE men to pursue them is I recommend, LET him Be The Man.  LET him be The Expert.  LET him be AN expert.  Yes, when we are competing in a field, we are BOTH men.  I'm just the one with breasts, as I was amusedly telling one man whom I met at Image Takeaway weekend in Philly on Sunday who was asking me more about my work as a Romance Coach and Online Dating Coach.  He liked that.  Of course, most men enjoy when we cite BREASTS.  Even just the use of the word, BREASTS is hypnotic, isn't it?  Got your attention if you're a man.  The women - our eyes just bug out a bit and then we laugh, either externally or at least internally.  Audacious, isn't it?  Well, indeed, be a little audacious.

Well, just as men like to be treated as Experts in SOME field, to put them in their I'm feeling MANLY mode, so women can SAFELY and easily be approached for expert advise about WHAT DO WOMEN LIKE IN SHOPPING?  This an area where WE are the experts, or like to purport ourselves that way, and we're safely NOT competing. 

Leverage that it is Mother's Day this Sunday.  (you DID know, right? Of course you did.  And if not, I'm helping you out on another level. No charge.  My pleasure.)  Ask other women, what're you getting your mother for mother's day? I don't want to JUST get her flowers/take her for brunch. I want to do something SPECIAL to give. What would YOU recommend?

Ah, now you have her pleasantly talking with you.

She is opening up to you about WHAT SHE LIKES and it's not just utterly fabulous shoes.

"Oh, really, that sounds so cool. I'm so glad I asked you for your advise. Wow. That's such a help. I can just SEE giving that to a woman...."  time to segue here, gentlemen.  She is In Rapport with you NOW.  Leverage it...   "How would you like to go get a coffee here and take a break from shopping with me?"  Cool, wasn't that?  After the charming coffee, "Audry, I've really had a great time talking with you and getting to know you a little.  I want to see you again.  Would you like to go to dinner with me sometime?"  Breath.  Pause.  "How is Friday night for you?"

And since some of you here are divorced dads with SONS, you can SO leverage that, too.  "My SONS have no idea what to give their mother.  What would YOU recommend?"  And then just wait.  She will start thinking.  Look at her expectantly.  OBT.  Of COURSE she wants to help you and answer you.  The stream of consciousness will start in about..... 17 seconds.

You know, with it being Wednesday, you could do this...

Thursday
Friday
Saturday

and have 3 dates, AT LEAST, from doing this.....  Just to help you out and to get you thinking and IN ACTION.  Go!

All the best,

April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach

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