1 post tagged “habits”

Yup. 

Set the alarm for a DIFFERENT TIME.

I can hear you now,  Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeek!

Ok. so for dating.  for romance.  we need, what?  yes, CHEMISTRY!

In my work as a Romance Coach and Online Dating Coach, as part of the whole strategy I work out with my clients, I do recommend they try some different things to shake things up a bit BECAUSE  our DIFFERENCES foster chemistry.

Soooo, are you an early morning person?

Get up 1 hr later and go for a walk around your hood NOW.  You will run into and be seeing people who get up a bit later than you.

If you are NOT an early morning person (me, me, me!  although, really I can get up at 6 am, but with discipline, then the HABIT resets my internal alarm clock.), set you alarm for 1 hour earlier and get up and go take that same walk.

No do NOT set your alarm clock for 1 hr earlier and then hit the snooze button until it's the same our you normally get up!  (you are wondering, "April, how could think I could do that - [merde, she understands me TOO entirely well!]?" ahhh, cause I've DONE that?  Not the habits I want to establish or model, but I'll just be truthful that I HAVE done this...... )

After your walkies, go to Starbucks or Peets.  You will SEE different people there now than you usually do, don't you?

That is just ONE simple idea.  Do it for 1 week.  Do it for both days on the weekend.  Whatever works.  You WILL see and meet DIFFERENT people than you normally do.

Have fun!

All the best,

April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach

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