2 posts tagged “finding love online”

OK, now that the weekend is over, we return to our regularly scheduled programming with my work as a Romance Coach and Online Dating Coach.  Time to develop your Romantic Life and GET a Romantic Relationship.  I know, I know, some of you here are already IN a fabulous Romantic Relationship.  I love that.  Romance, Sexual Connection, and Chemistry are all essential elements in creating a really WONDERFULLY rewarding and fulfilling Long Term Relationship.  Gasp, dare I say it?  Yup, even a ... Marriage!

I know some of you here do NOT want to marry again and are not seeking to marry or have marriage be in your life.  While some of you getting married or being married is essential for you.  And some of you are indeed ever so happily married and love marriage.  One is newly in my Vox Hood, but he has YET to post....  I'll introduce that gentleman to you later....

So, back to Easy Dating Tip to Getting MORE Dates.  Because if what YOU want is INDEED to marry, you are seeking MARRIAGE, well, you can pray that your UPS delivery person is your Soul Mate.... or you need to accept reality and GO ON MORE DATES.  Indeed, as singles daters, we need to GO ON DATES to meet people and explore the possibilities for creating that satisfying and fulfilling long term relationship.

So?  What are some MORE ideas and easy dating tips for getting more dates?

On my theme of Summer School, because it is JUST so much FUN.  Today let's contemplate BUSINESS as a topic.

Indeed, if you look at most Bschools and are applying to pursue an MBA, you will find that there are a LOT more MEN pursuing this than women.

Business classes are often the same that way. But not all.

So pick up the brochure from your local community college or learning annex and take a look at the offerings.

What are they offering in Real Estate?
Financial Investments?
Mortgage?  (oh John!)
or perhaps Plumbing?
Electrians?  (hi Matt!)

The point is, go to some classes that are a BIT DIFFERENT for you.

In general, I find the ones which are 1 night, 1 or 2 days, weekend thingamagibbers are the better investment of your time if it is a topic which you are not personally wanting really to DEVELOP your knowledge of. 

Stretch yourself... a little as my friend, Sue Crutcher, Life Coaching and Empowerment through Baby Steps
would recommend.  Baby Steps here.  Don't commit to the time and expense of a 13 week class that you do NOT want to take.

However, while you are there, you MUST make an effort to meet and chat up the Others if you actually want to GET MORE DATES!

Enjoy and Stretch!

All the best,

April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach

Yes, you've heard it before.  Not all of my ideas which I'm oh so readily citing for free here at my Easy Dating Tips and Advice blog are new or original.  My point in posting them is to give people an ENDLESS supply of Dating Tips and Advice ideas for all those times when we get in a dating rut and can't think of a THING to do to meet new people jump start our dating lives. 

So, yes, WORK OUT.

RIght now I will just get GO TO A GYM.

But really there are number of cool ideas related to that.  But those will be for other posts in the future.

I know some people who have said, "I just want to work out."  That is cool.  When I was working at Oracle, I simply LOVED their corporate gym.  I would get there EARLY morning when they opened at 6 am, beating out the dreadful San Francisco Bay Area traffic.  Well, by going at the SAME TIME all the time, you would start to run into the same people, and do the Head Nod hello thing.  I feel men do that very well.  It's just an acknowledgment.  We don't have to do or say more... we could.  But we don't have to.  Ladies, when he does this SMILE and make eye contact and SMILE. 

Over time we are going to create that feeling of FAMILIARITY where you two will eventually say that magic word... "Hello."  And then you're off the races. 

OK, I'll save more ideas for future blogs, but I did just have to say - TRY SOME DIFFERENT THINGS while you are there so you actually see and meet some new people!

All the best,