2 posts tagged “baseball”
As a Dating and Relationship Coach with a specialty as an Online Dating Coach, I am always seeking to provide a variety of activities to suggest to singles for stretching themselves, breaking out of ruts, and ergo naturally meeting new people.
Indeed, my friend, Craig Ernst, commented on how many married people met their romantic relationship partner via essentially mutual friends. This is quite true. When we are in our 30s and younger, we are generally in social scenarios as a natural consequence of life with our buddies and meeting new people, usually other singles via THEM and their extended network and vice versa.
Well, it's usually single women are ASKING about, "WHERE do I meet more single men?" I think it was Ginie Polo Sayles who I first heard say, and in her sweet, charming, Southern-accented voice, "Why, all around you!" Because it's true. We have these mental filters. I think some of it is we were used to meeting gaggles of single men in one location when were in college - picture fraternity parties, and you'll know immediately what I mean. For those who are reading this who live in non-USA countries, my apologies. I don't know an immediate culturally relevant metaphor to illustrate it for you. But if have ever seen the movie, "Animal House," well, that had LOTS of images of college fraternity parties.
One Place with LOTS of single men.
Well, indeed, college, business school, and Evangelical Bible colleges and seminaries are about the only place for that now.....
And SPORTING EVENTS.
I can think of a few others immediately as well for good place for single women to meet LOADS of men. True, we don't know if they are all single, but you will find LOADs of MEN, MEN, MEN.
As a dating and relationship coach, I would say, that is a target-rich location and leverage it.
Football, baseball, hockey are all underway right now. Go to some games. They can be pee-wee hockey (where is Governor Sarah Palin and her "Hockey Mom" words of wisdom to back me up here?). High school football. Professional baseball. Even going to a sports bar to watch these games can be leveraging the law of large numbers.
Think creatively, get out of the rut you are in, have some fun (!!!), and, yup, get out.
And you are way more likely to meet someone special, get more romantic sex dates, and simply have more fun.
When we are laughing and radiant with happiness, we are magnetically attractive, n'est pas?
All the best,
April Braswell
Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Personals Sites Review
Yup. Another Easy Dating Tip from your Romance Coach and Online Dating Coach. Perhaps you were worried that I had, eek, RUN OUT OF IDEAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ooooo noooooo, say it ain't so!!!
No worries. I got a million of 'em. With me, my clients are NEVER in a dating rut with NOTHING they can do on a Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday to GO MEET MORE PEOPLE and GET DATES or GET MORE DATES.
Yesterday I encouraged you to go try a YOGA class to get a romantic date.
Now, I mainly talked to MEN about doing this for meeting Da Ladies.
However, and here's your bonus freebie (free on top of free, is what? Uber Free?) because this blog is going to be an other Easy Dating Tip, other than about Yoga.
So, as a bonus, the thing is, ladies, YOU can take Yoga Classes to meet MEN, too. It's not just The Reverse of yesterday.
Part of the point of TRY SOMETHING new and stretching yourself (HAD to say it, we're talking about Yoga, right?) is to do something a bit different than what is 100% you you you SO you can meet someone WITH WHOM YOU HAVE CHEMISTRY.
If they are IDENTICAL to you, no chemistry, no fun, no surging passion. And I don't know about you, but I have GOT to have some surging PASSION in MY romantic relationships.
So ladies, if Yoga is not quite YOUR THING what you NORMALLY DO, then for YOU to take a Yoga class IS a stretch. And you might meet some nice man who is working on loosening up his hockey thighs.
That was my OVER DELIVERY part since this is a FREE Easy Dating Tips Advise Blog, where other Romance Coaches will actually CHARGE you for the pleasure of reading their articles so you could actually get a sense of would I want to work with YOU in particular. I've learned all about Over Delivery from MR. Over Delivery Himself, Motivational Speaker, Master of Persuasion, Kevin Hogan.
Now for the real point of this blog.
Yup. More MOVING. It's Summer Time. I am all about GETTING OUT, GETTING MOVING, Lookin Good! and GETTING HEALTHY.
JOIN AN ACTIVITIES CLUB.
Around here we have Absolute Adventures.
Join a Hiking Club.Cycling.Scrabblers who Blog. Kettlebelling. Ju Jitsu. Chi Gung. Tae Kwan Do. Kirate. TreadMillsRUs. Jogging. Power Walkers. Marathon Runners. Triathlon Training. Volley Ball. Beach Volley Ball. Volley Ball at the Park. Tennis. Baseball. Softball. Frisbee Golf. Swimming. Golf (where's John?). Basketball. Street Hockey (cause it's gonna be a long long summer without the NHL!).
See what I mean?
Even if you just try a day or two of each, that's enough for the next 6-9 months for your calendar. Because of course, with ALL of these Easy Dating Tips, you are going to mix 'em up and do some different things at different times, right?
Enjoy and have fun. Remember to bring your 35+ Sunscreen, Right? We've learned that from Dr. Helton who sure know all about Making Your Skin Beautiful without Surgery.
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach
