Online Dating Coach says, "It's Friday night, why are you reading my blog? GET OUT!"
Yes. It's Friday night.
If you are single, WHY are you reading my blog? ;)
Indeed, why are you not GETTING OUT somewhere?
Dance club
Classy hotel bar
Spa hotel bar
24 Hour Fitness (linger by the water area and say "Hey" to mbrs of the opposite sex, thinking of me standing behind you nudging you and encouraging you)
Starbucks
Peets
McDonalds (good coffee, actually.... I like it with the Sugar Free Vanilla Syrup.)
Comedy Club
Book Signing
Grocery Store
Wal*Mart
Target
Learn some conversation items that you would actually enjoy talking with to strangers about. and then... PRACTICE
OK, special exceptions made for those of you who are going to go see the new James Bond film.
but then TOMORROW I want to about some ACTION and IMPLEMENTATION behind your goals!
I'm heading out to a club tonight.
And tomorrow I have a lunch date and a dinner date.
By which I just mean to say, I'm doing this too!
One man I met earlier, totally interesting man from another country. Not a good match for me or me for him. Totally cool with that.
Why are you still reading my blog?
See yourself getting up from your couch, putting your jacket on, grabbing your car keys, and .... heading out!
Report back. I want to hear about action and implementation.
No whining. It's not attractive and won't help you with the opposite sex.
And please know, I am rooting for you. Because, in the end, the intimacy level of our relationships really DOES matter.
it's all that matters
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach, Romance Coach
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Comments
April, you are such a great whirlwind of dating energy. All single people looking for romance should be sucked into your vortex.
Next time I come across someone who is single and moaning they'll be sent straight to you.
Philip Graves [Consumer Behaviour Expert]
you are darling to say so.
and naturally I like all the references to sucking and moaning! lol!
And I DO have a strict "no whinging rule!"
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach, Romance Coach
Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Personals Sites Review
Hope all of your dates this weekend are awesome!
Darryl Pace
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In my limited dating experience Friday and Saturday night are great for going out and scoring one-night stands (not that I ever had one!) but that they were less reliable in meeting someone better suited for a long term relationship.
I often spent my Friday's and Saturdays working on my stuff and getting out and traveling. When you are plugged in and looking for it you can have dates every night of the week, and less expensively than on a weekend.
Steve
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You are lucky to have an excuse for going out on fridays and saturdays, because it's part of your job...romantic dating, meeting singles, flirting, you know.
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April, the Dating Diva,
Allow me to throw a pigeon out here:
Do you know that you can be out there, or virtually EVERYWHERE without going out physically?
Well, OOBE (Out of Body Experience) is not necessarily needed.
Quieting the mind is!
John Ho
Understanding Personalities Through Numbers for Better Influence & Persuasion (blog)
Intuitive John
"Use Your Intuition and Intuitive Powers To Eliminate Stress and Bring True Happiness Into Your Life”You've been the busy little bee! :-)
Jennifer Skinner
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I am out at starbucks in Manhattan, but I am still reading your blog!!!!!
Great post thanks
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If I get up now, get my keys and head out to find a date, I'm not sure who would have my head first - my husband or the people I'm babysitting for! LOL
Seriously, you make it sound like so much fun, I don't know how anyone single reading your blog could not take action.
Lisa McLellan
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that was for the SINGLE singles.
You are already... off market! lol!
SmartPhones let you blog participate and practice your expert communication skills... on the go! (or while flirting with and picking up other singles!)
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach, Romance Coach
Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Personals Sites Review
definitely the honey bee!
How are you oh mistress of style and attraction through wardrobe? I'll be over to your off Vox blog tomorrow over coffee.
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach, Romance Coach
Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Personals Sites Review
well YOUR date twould be WITH your Dear Husband, lucky him!
And thank you
well, that IS my goal....
to inspire and kick a lil butt while we're at it!
hugs,
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Expert, Romance Coach
Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Personals Sites Review
John, you are such a goofball! thanks for your enthusiasm and contribution for communication.
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach, Romance Coach
Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Personals Sites Review
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach, Romance Coach
Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Personals Sites Review
John Ho
Understanding Personalities Through Numbers for Better Influence & Persuasion (blog)
Intuitive John
Learn To How To Trust Your Intuition!Steve,
I find it amusing how people that are now in relationship believe dating is easy street. As a single, never married, no children person, this group is a tough nut to crack.
For most people, during the week, busy with work, (in my case school and other committment). For me, I find it tough to schedule dates during the week. That leaves Friday and Saturday nights for dating. For me, with work and preparing for finals...leaves no time for dating. I can see why some singles get real picky about who they select for dates; I am in my 30s now, I do not have time to waste with Ms. Fatty, Ms. Jaded, Ms. indecisive, Ms. lowlife, Ms. Desparate and Ms. drama (I hope you get the idea). As a man who is clean, well maintained person, it is harder because the perception of me is a guy who probably is a womanizer.
With respect to your "It's Friday and I need to be out so I do not look like a loser" or "I'm 30, time to get married and pump out a couple of children" well there is a element of truth to this statement. Society tells me "need to get out" April Braswell preaches this, but with my schedule plus the fact, I am getting older, I don't have time to waste on women who do not qualify. Hope you understand.
thanks for your comment and for following,
Indeed, shaking it up and involving oneself in a variety of activities when one is ready and committed to wanting to create a relationship is imperative.
Glad to hear you are getting some inspired ideas from my Dating blog.
Keep up the great work. I'm sure it will pay off for you in the end.
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach, Relationship Coach
Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Personals Sites Review