Online Dating Coach & Romantic Relationship Nurturing - Taking Responsibility

Today will be a WHIRLWIND and it's not even directly because Oil Prices are back up to $84.00 a barrell (why didn't I stock up and get several into my garage?) and the stock market rally of October 13, 2008.

It's because I have sales meetings today and am packing and preparing to attending Motivational Speaker, Business, Education, Success Kevin Hogan's Wealth Creation C.A.M.P. on the Science of Affluence.

I'm rooming with others.

Now, one of the differences in any kind of a relationship is Being An Adult.

I'm very clear I am the Yin energy in my romantic relationships, or they don't last long.  But that doesn't mean I expect to be a pampered princess in life, well, at least not ALL the time.  Only at the Nail Salons....  (Spa chair, please!)

Since I have been to Kevin's seminars before, I just already KNOW the logistics and what to expect in a general way about LOGISTICS (not the content other than, naturally, it will be superb, cutting edge, and practical!  I will be able to implement it there with LOADS of take aways to continue to implement in my life).  So, I'm acting as the gracious hostess for some newbies.  There are just all these logistical THINGS to deal with.  Sonya hurt her back.  Had reg'd MONTHS ago and can't attend.

She'd reserved the room.

THe other roomies had sent her a check.

She is sending me a check.

I have to phone and email her to mail sure I have all the information... and the funds.

Oh, and now the split is different.

And they have HER cell number.

But she won't be there.

Logistics.

Early on in singles dating, there are logistics as well.  The excitement of deciding which online dating site to use.  So, I have a BUNCH in one place to make it easy and fun:  Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Personals Sites Review

Then, what to wear.  Selecting venue.  Arranging to meet.  Later, having the man pick you up.  Or if you're the yang energy, you're picking him up.  Just my focus is with men and women who are looking to marry and who want to pursue that kind of relationship.  There are other coaches who will train for casual sex solomente, and that's there business.  I'm inculcating for covenanet commitment.  I'm digressing again.  Only a little coffee has been consumed this morning.

Once past Romantic Relationship PHase One: Chemistry/Attraction  (I talk about this a lot more in depth in my ebook, Trisha was asking about that, and my blog has a different focus than what I have already published elsewhere.) then we are truly communicating.  Once we are an adult, we have responsibility to uphold even in Phase One.

Mutual surging hormones means whenever you DO consummate things and have sex, yes, DO PLAY SAFE.  You're thinking I don't even need to say this in the 21st century, but that would NOT be true.  Indeed, we are predictably irrational and once aroused, we can DO stupid things even when it comes around to having unsafe and unprotected sex.   So with my clients, I coach them to be sure to cross legs until things have been negotiated AND to keep condoms where you DO want to use them.

THe over 50s Baby Boomer singles are the fastest growing segment of the population who is contracting AIDS.  Because they are probably thinking... no chance of getting pregnant. We're good.  No, you're not.  

MUST run.  Meeting soon.  Packing later.

Happy dating and relationships, folks! 

All the best,

April Braswell

Online Dating Coach, Romance Coach