Online Dating Coach and Dating Expert - Easy Dating Tips for the Weekend

Jan 21, 2009 at 9:14 PM
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OK, so now I am actually HOME and happily ensconced on my own couch having returned from Dave Lakhani's Speaker event. I originally met Dave via Motivational Speaker Kevin Hogan I am back in the saddle, drinking my beloved Peets coffee and looking at my social calendar. Yeah, yeah, with me, that means I may be headed out of town again. However, in the meantime, time to go out on some more dates.

What about you? Are you a single guy or single gal? Are you in a romantic sex relationship? and do you want to be?

How is your singles dating life going?

Well....It's Wednesday. What're your social plans for this weekend?

If you don't HAVE any social plans yet for this weekend, then it is time to get cracking! (Don't make me whump you upside your cyber head, ok?)

You can start with a fabulous Thursday night Girls Night Out for drinks. Go out with a group of your girlfriends, keeping the group to about 3-4 friends, so you are an approachable SIZED group for single men.

1. Sit at the little tables up near the bar where you are VISIBLE and there is ROOM to easily interact with you.

2. DO flirt with the men at the table next to you.

3. Go up to the bar one at a time to order and wait for your drinks, breaking yourself away from your female Herd so single men can SEE and PERCEIVE you.

4. While you are at the bar ordering and waiting for your fabulous cocktail, DO flirt with and lightly interact with the men there. Just a few flitting little sentences. "Oh that looks good! what is it?" "Oh pardon me, can I squeeze in here to order a drink? Thank you! Such a gentleman!"

Any light little flirting femmy words which you can get out of your mouth, DO!

And if you are thinking, "Oh April, but maybe I don't want to pick those men up...." and then you're thinking, "So, I won't flirt."

STOP THAT RIGHT NOW!

This is not about picking up THOSE particular men.

This is about YOU developing a HABIT of flirting to be successful with men wherever you go.

Go ahead and make plans today for tomorrow evening!

Have fun and Happy Dating!

All the best,

April Braswell
Dating Expert and Online Dating Coach

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We need to practice what we want to become better at until they are habits. This applies to flirting as much as anything else.

Steve
Persuasion Expert

My weekend is a date with my college courses at the library.

Working on my resume at home and...

Deciding that I will shelve dating. I have more pressing needs. After all many people who are in healthy and happy relationships say that "they weren't looking when they found someone." As they say "when I least expect it".

Besides in this economy, who has money to burn to go on traditional dates that end up a free meal and drinks for the women or another loser night out.

Great post, can coffee really be "beloved"...

I find that serendipitous events are often more interesting than when I am on "The Quest". I have learned that if something gets my attention as I am passing by, to stop and explore...

In fact Serendipity is one of my favorite words, right up there with Ubiquitous and Schadenfreude...

Glad you had a great experience with Dave Lakhani in Boise...
Rob

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April,

So, I'm thinking about when I used to approach women way back when....Hmmm. I approached women who were by themselves as well as those that were with their friends. However, I can see feeling a bit hesitant if a lady was with a lot (probably more than 3) of friends. Anyway, I just found myself thinking about that in response to your statement containing this: "breaking yourself away from your female Herd".

Hope all is well!

Darryl Pace