Online Dating Coach - Taking that First Date from Dreadful to Delightful
Communications Expert, David J. Parnell, wrote a special guest article which I've published at my website on the singles and dating topic:
Communication Skills in Dating - Taking That First Date from Dreadful to Delightful
In my work as an Online Dating Coach and Relationship Coach, the romance coach work can often entail FIRST working on
what do you want?
Most of my singles dating coaching clients first ask me, "April, how do I get more dates?" And this is great, because I am superb at getting lots and lots of dates so much so that women, typically single women over 40, but certainly including singles in their 30s beg me, "April, PLEASE, tell me how you do it and TEACH ME. You've got to lead a seminar on how to get more dates."
However, then what?
David provides his communications expertise and communications skills to all the conversation which you want to have on your Date0 or First Date.... which will hopefully lead to a second date and many more to come. And who knows? It could lead to that great romantic relationship of your dreams and marriage.
All the best,
April Braswell
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Comments
Intuitive John Shoemaker
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Hi John,
tee hee.
reminds me of this goofy girls game when I was a girl.
sign up now for your Mystery Date...
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach
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This has been in your blood your entire life hasn't it
I would never have had the energy when I was younger to put something like that together. Of course now that I'm traveling to all of these hotels and resorts every day could be a mystery...so how does your game work?
Matthew Shields
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Unfortunately, I am a married man with a son. Well, I might post myself as a
"MBA" then - Married But Available :-D.
Make sure my wife doesn't read this comment. OK?
John Ho
Understanding Personalities for Better Influence & Persuasion
Hi John,
yes. I have an article about that. I'll cite it later in my blog.
Wife sees you are MBA... you will be doing the dishes for a loooooong time and sleeping in the ... dog's house! lol!
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach
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No, we don't have a dog. We've a cute dwarf rabbit Dusty. So maybe sleeping out at his hutch instead then.
But I've no sleep overnight tonight as well, so I don't need any of these 2 resting place.
(I did sleep 4 hrs during the day though. Shh....h)
Well, don't mix up activities with results :D
John Ho
Understanding Personalities for Better Influence & Persuasion
April, you are the Queen of Date Procuration! :-)
Jennifer Skinner
Wardrobe, Style, Image
dog house...
rabbit hutch....
whatever ;)
Glad to hear you find all of my dating and relationship advise and tips so amusing and useful. Interesting how you can apply it to marketing your SBO as well... :D
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach
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Good communication is vital whether on a first date or any date. Communication and confidence.
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How come some people get so hunged up on this?
April.. you're soo cool. You're the good word in the Dating Arena. I kike your humor among other things.
Stay wonderful
Anamarie
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Oooooooo you have a bunny? I love rabbits. I had a dwarf lop earred rabbit for 11 years. He was my baby. Everyone called him my first born. When we went to Europe we got a house sitter for him. He was litter box trained and understood 9 words I think it was. I'd yell out "Ben, do you want to go outside?" And he'd come charging from the other room, hop outside and play for a while, then come back in when he was done. :-( I'm going to cry, I miss him so much.
Lisa McLellan
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Lisa, you are SO cute.
bunnies!
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach
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people should just skip the first date. go straight to 3 or 4 then you don't have to wonder about all the first date rules, right?
www.kevinhogan.net
kevin
Nice try, trying to swish the frame.
but sex on the first date is STILL a no-no
if what you want is a relationship
perfectly fab if what you is solomente cas sex
very creative Dr. Hogan.
men have been hopeful with that one for centuries.... ;)
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach
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Hi Darryl,
excellent question. I have had clients request that I become a matchmaker for them. but then I have to create a stable first and would need to charge a LOT more. Not out of the question, but will take about another 6 months to develop that for them.
But to miss out on the process of morphing oneself into date bait means I would have to sort of do that FOR them. and to an extent, they really are the ones who HAVE to do that.
It's like only wanting to be there for the moment of consummation without all the "foreplay." In actuality, it's ALL sex. Does that make sense?
There is no Instant Relationship, just add boiling water. Tee hee. Although some would REALLY like it if I could sell them that!
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach
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Cindy
Cindy Eyanson Online
Oh on the first date, or date0 we're just warming up our tongues! lol!
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Relationship Coach
Scott
True Reviews for You
I hope the article on conversation will help your clients to better communicate in such potentially anxious time...
David J. Parnell
He needs pretty low maintenance as compared with a dog or cat. When we're going off overseas this X'Mas, we need a Babysitter by putting him into a caring place to be looked after.
He doesn't know how to do Online Dating yet :D !
John Ho
Understanding Personalities for Better Influence & Persuasion
After the 1st date, you as an Online Dating Coach, makes sure your client would not end up with the following scenario:
ATTORNEY: What was the first thing your husband said to you that morning?
WITNESS: He said, "Where am I, Cathy?"
ATTORNEY: And why did that upset you?
WITNESS: My name is Susan.
John HoUnderstanding Personalities for Better Influence & Persuasion
ATTORNEY: How was your first marriage terminated?
WITNESS: By death.
ATTORNEY: And by whose death was it terminated?
John HoUnderstanding Personalities for Better Influence & Persuasion
You are too funny.
be sure to share that with Bob of DIYLawyer.net.
Humor - an essential componet of dating and successful romantic relationships, n'est pas?
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach
Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Personals Sites Review
> You are too funny.be sure to share that with Bob of DIYLawyer.net.
Yap, April, I'm going to post in Bob's blog the silly real life remarks that attorney made in US courts.Thks for the tips!
John Ho
Understanding Personalities for Better Influence & Persuasion
Hi JOhn,
oh that will be a HOOT.
I bet Bob will laugh as well.
keep the great commenting coming and building your online relationship'g.
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach, Romance Coach
Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Personals Sites Review