Online Dating Coach - Kicking it back

You are so energetic like a 18year old. Nothing can stop you from outings.

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April,

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dating and relationships are like shoes.

The relationship that is like the hot fashion trend of certain boots which are OH so Fall 2008, well. You buy them, but you will ONLY wear them until 12/31/2008. You ENJOYED them. They were WONDERFUL. you LOVED them.

but now it is 01/01/2009. And you're giving them to Goodwill.

It's like that with love relationships which end.

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The mark "This is good" that I tick is for my comment here, not for your blog content ;-)

Now, even though I'm a romantic man with a strong "2", I really can't quite treat the opposite sex the way you describe as a disposable play thing. We are human beings, not animals. In my family, we treat our bunny pet Dusty as a family member. He’s cute & smart (in rabbit terms of course). He would sit, turn his back to us and stays near the door for a while whenever we refuse his persistent attempts to come back prematurely to the house. This is as if he’s telling us that after all, he does NOT want to be inside anyway, big deal. Most of the times when we release him in the early morning to have his free time from his hutch, he would rush out to the nearby locked wooden garden gate & stay behind to gaze at the front garden for a L-O-N-G while. He behaves like a little young kid wanting to have a day’s out for fun.

Here, we are talking about human beings. Behind every dating is a PERSON with feelings & emotions. Even though Kevin Hogan recently reported in his Coffee issue (about 8-10 weeks ago, I think) that scientific study concluded that (human) love is actually a motivation, NOT an emotion, I still have great respect for the opposite sex. Thanks to my competent mum who always strive to get the best for her four sons (except me unfortunately as I am the protege of my grandma, whom my mum had an ever-lasting tug of war. So I was her least favourite son, I suppose. Still, I can see how hard she worked for the family for years. So I have great respects even she's quite aggressive apart from being able to be diplomatic. But as old age catches up with her and she's “sick of being not getting her way” ALL the time, she now becomes dominant than ever. I've pity for my father in that sense. But if it's NOT for her focus & dedication, we couldn’t have the chance to migrate first from Macau (a Portugese colony then, now part of China) to Hong Kong (a British colony then, again now part of China), then move from Hong Kong to Australia for study & settled down for a new life here.

By extension, I always have deep respect and a favourable bias towards female. But I don't like aggressive ladies. In terms of intense drive, focus and determination, my mum is really a man trapped in a female body.

So you’ve my two cents worth of personal opinion!

John Ho

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As a single, never married, no children person. I know what my best features are, what I have to offer. In my opinion, single never married, no children GenXers are the hardest ones to find quality dates. The majority are educated, have jobs and don't want to settle for less. I do not want to sound negative, but Ms. Braswel analogy of a start up sales company that do not know the value of a great product" is dumb. She makes it sound like we are "selective" Right now, saturday nights are cool...NCAA football and Hockey Night in Canada.

For some people like myself, I do not want to waste time with Ms. Dating Wrong. Now I know some of you are thinking "I can see why I am single" etc. I would rather date a quality women that has the characteristics that I want rather than random date single women that have little ambition, little to offer, poor self worth, overweight, and a poor attitude about life. My gosh, Ms. Braswell, you struck a nerve with me:)

Ohh you are just young to handle all those changes. Keep it slow. And you would do great.

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