Online Dating Coach - Easy Dating Tips, Hit the Dance Floors!
I was just in the midwest and attended a number of social soiree events while there.
And I have to say and testify that, yes, I know you have heard it before, and guess what? It works!
If you are a single guy or single gal, whether you are 25, 35, 45, 55, or 65, yes, indeed, a great way to meet other singles is to hit the dance floors and go dancing!
Now the venues which are really the best are often the ones which are NOT the huge mammoth dance clubs.
Rather, small events hosted by a social group, or a bar and grill with a live band and small dance floor, or those places on M-Th nights which offer dance classes and THEN a social dance time.
I mean, I KNOW I am good, ok, great, at meeting single men and getting asked out on lots of dates. This is part of how I am a Dating Expert. However, this is NOT just me and my being so magnetically attractive.
Of course, while you are there, chat up the other singles. Ladies, flirt, bat those eyelashes, and banter with your guy friends and around your girlfriends. Guys, invite her to sit down with you for a minute, rest her feet and buy her a drink. And DO ask her dance! And then DO ask her for her phone number and give her yours so she feels safe and secure.
When you apply this easy dating advise and tip, indeed, you WILL more singles. Yes, you might have to drive a few towns over to go the really GOOD places. One of my favorite West Coast Swing venues midweek, people drive in from over 75 miles away because the dancing is so great and the crowd is so friendly. Keep an open mind. Do some reconnaissance for your singles dating venues.
And HIT THE DANCE FLOORS!
Then be sure to bop or boogie back over here and tell us all about it!
Happy Dating!
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach and Relationship Coach
Comments
great tips, and country bars have those line dances which are even easier to join in...
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I'd give anything to go dancing at a night club again. Ahhhhhhhh, the memories. I love dancing.
Lisa McLellan
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Steve
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Your column is good. However the "giving out Phone numbers" part. From my experience, and not because I am a jerk, women are hesitant to provide phone numbers, email address. Most of the single women claim the " I have had bad experiences giving out phone numbers. Guys have stalk me etc".
I can understand one bad experience, but several bad experiences? I think that it a small hint that they are not THAT interested. Even I am a little skeptical about handing out my personal phone number. I have had, in the past, women constantly call me, when I made it clear I am not interested. I think some caution should be used when handing out phone numbers.
Second, there are different dating rules for the nightclubs, it not "search, pick up and leave, like I shop at the grocery store".
it's true. Some women won't give out numbers. there is being hard to get and then there is being IMPOSSIBLE. You're smart about pursuing only those who seem to RESPOND to your interest. Sometimes they are just immature and have no social poise or manners.
Happy Dating!
All the best,
April Braswell
Online Dating Coach and Relationship Coach
Very nice post. Also, regarding dancing, it is great exercise! So, at the dance clubs you're killing two birds with one stone -- meeting other singles and getting some exercise in!
Darryl Pace
I think my dancing would be sufficient to keep people at a distance! It's strange, as a semi-professional guitarist in a band I can do my stuff if I'm making the music, but if it's someone else I'm hopeless!
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John Ho
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how right you are! singles combing good healthy exercise with how they meet each other really contributes to the quality of their dating and their relationships.
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Happy Dating and Relationships,
April Braswell
Vegas Boomer Dating Expert