Easy Dating Tips for GETTING MORE DATES - Where the Girls Are....
So this is for my single male friends who are always asking me, not quite whining, but you know, male nagging, "How can I meet more women? What do I say when I meet them.?" etc.
I'm going to have to give you a quickie here (I know you'll forgive me!) and elaborate on it later.
Where are there LOTS and LOTS of women?
What do women LOVE to do? (before and after sex, of course)
Hmmm, I know you know. Work with me here people.
SHOP!
Yes, so where are the women? What are we doing? Shopping.
So?
Go to the mall.
Go there at lunchtime.
Go in the evenings.
Go on the weekends.
More later!
All the best, April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach
Comments
Same principle applies to meeting a member of the opposite sex.
I was in a Starbuck's in Phoenix awhile back meeting with one of my dealers. As with most Starbuck's there was a constant stream of extremely attractive women coming through and ordering coffee. My dealer remarked, "How come I never meet women like that?" So I asked him, "Do you ever ask women like that out?" "No", he responded. "Well," I told him, "there's your answer."
True Story. There is a lesson in there.
Steve
Once again just demonstrating your strong leadership skills there, Steve Chambers! Must be why you are with a BEAUTIFUL woman!
All the best,
April BraswellRomance Coach, Online Dating Coach
Look at that, a picture of April once more surrounded by men! Qu'elle surprize.
Such a simple solution isn't it Steve and April? You are not likely to find beautiful women (or unbeautiful women either) at a men's barber shop ... so, why would you hang out there whining about not finding women?
Sue
Aaron
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach
Tim ;)
April,
Great idea! Malls are good places to see a large variety of people. All the different stores bring people out for different reasons. You can always find something to say to the person standing in line next to you.
Jennifer Skinner: Wardrobe Planning, Image and Style
I like your thinking! Precisely.
Just as men like to be treated as experts to put them in their I'm feeling MANLY mode, so women can SAFELY and easily be approached for expert advise about WHAT DO WOMEN LIKE IN SHOPPING?
hello. Mother's Day! Ask other women, what're you getting your mother for mother's day? I don't want to JUST get her flowers/take her for brunch. I want to do something SPECIAL to give. What would YOU recommend?
And now you have her pleasantly talking with you.
She is opening up to you about WHAT SHE LIKES.
Really, that sounds so cool. I'm so glad I asked you for your advise. Wow. That's such a help. I can just SEE giving that to a woman. Would you like to go to dinner with me sometime? or, would you like to go get a coffee here and take a break from shopping with me? (the later is even better, ask for a dinner date afterwards....)
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach
of course it helps when you do your seeking were your target is
Focus your energy
Matthew Shields
I don't like malls, but when I'm there for myself, I actually find a lot of women a more than happy to give their opinion about what clothes I should buy. And they usually have a better eye than most men! :-)
Yann
Personal Development & Success Coach
Dr Peter
April,
I don't know about the singles scene where you are, but here in London, Ontario...yeah right!! Let's see...need to be making 100k plus, drive a lexus that will get me a coffee date.
I am single, but alos a realist. I tried the mall approach and for me, nothing. I am not rude, perverted or strange. To be frank, I have tried the suggestions you say that works. I don't know if it's the demographics or being around women who are jaded, bitter, resentful (also divorced, single mothers). The suggestions you state come across as childish.
Around here, just to ask strangers for coffee after exchanging words for minutes, most women will think that I am weird....
2 things quickly.
1. Just as men want physical beauty in a woman for romance, so women are attracted to a man's ability to provide and to protect. There are subtle ways to display this well. At my website I have only just really started to fill out the section on masculine image, but those could be a help to you.
2. Indeed, if you think they will or you think they never will have a cup of coffee with me, you're right, to paraphrase Henry Ford. I'm working on creating some CDs and an ebook about this for dating. As soon as I have those ready, I'll let you know as I'm sure they will be a help to you in your quest for finding your love. Being at the mall, inviting a lady casually for a cup of coffee, indeed, being NEAR the Starbucks helps and combine this with flirting with her a little. Many of the men I work with initially they are too blunt.
The Easy Dating Tips I suggest here at my blog are for the sole purpose of giving away free a TON of creative ideas to MEETING more women. So many people I hear and work with initially tell me, like yourself, I am not MEETING people. My clients who work with me over the course of a year or so and I go much more in depth with the how of doing all this. If you want to know more about that, just ping me at my aol email address that you have.
Good luck with your search!
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach