Easy Dating Tips for GETTING MORE DATES - Shift Your Clock
Yup.
Set the alarm for a DIFFERENT TIME.
I can hear you now, Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeek!
Ok. so for dating. for romance. we need, what? yes, CHEMISTRY!
In my work as a Romance Coach and Online Dating Coach, as part of the whole strategy I work out with my clients, I do recommend they try some different things to shake things up a bit BECAUSE our DIFFERENCES foster chemistry.
Soooo, are you an early morning person?
Get up 1 hr later and go for a walk around your hood NOW. You will run into and be seeing people who get up a bit later than you.
If you are NOT an early morning person (me, me, me! although, really I can get up at 6 am, but with discipline, then the HABIT resets my internal alarm clock.), set you alarm for 1 hour earlier and get up and go take that same walk.
No do NOT set your alarm clock for 1 hr earlier and then hit the snooze button until it's the same our you normally get up! (you are wondering, "April, how could think I could do that - [merde, she understands me TOO entirely well!]?" ahhh, cause I've DONE that? Not the habits I want to establish or model, but I'll just be truthful that I HAVE done this...... )
After your walkies, go to Starbucks or Peets. You will SEE different people there now than you usually do, don't you?
That is just ONE simple idea. Do it for 1 week. Do it for both days on the weekend. Whatever works. You WILL see and meet DIFFERENT people than you normally do.
Have fun!
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach
Comments
Steve Chambers, Sales trainer
Like I will be momentarily.
Sweet dreams!
All the best,
April BraswellRomance Coach, Online Dating Coach
Scott A Bell
I am The Road Warrior: Last minute discount travel.
Great idea April. I find that a simple 10-minute change actually does the trick.
Yann
Yann Vernier - Personal Coach
This is so true! You really do meet different people when you shift your schedule around.
Jennifer Skinner
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Great advice. It's always good to shake up our routine a bit. Otherwise, you get into a rut. What is a rut -- a grave with the ends kicked out. Boorrrrinnnggggg.
Sue Crutcher, Life Empowerment Mentor
Aaron
I like going to the gym at all times of day as well. Basically the same theory
Focus Your Energy
Matthew Shields
I'm gonna have to move...
Sheridan
Sheridan, Why? Is your whole neighborhood boring?????? 24 hours a day????
Sonya Lenzo
The Business Insurance Expert
www.sonyamlenzo.com
Night owls and morning people don't get along too well. Been there done that.
Tim
I don't understand your comment.
All the best,
April BraswellRomance Coach, Online Dating Coach
All the best,
April BraswellRomance Coach, Online Dating Coach
If I got up any earlier in the morning to go walk the police would pull me over to see what I was up to. No, seriously, this happened to me when I was 9 months prego. Cop says, so what are you doing walking around so early in the morning? So I says, "Are you serious? I'm walking trying to get this baby out of me!" What a dumb ass.
Plus when I walk, I am usually not made up. I really don't want to meet people with my "scary morning face" on.
But then again, I'm not trying to meet people.
YOU GIVE GREAT ADVISE though!!
And why YES, a really lovely man has already snapped you off the market, lady.
Sigh. I know, I know. I really won't so full face before heading out for a walkies in the morning. Wash face, brush teeth, brush hair, a touch of minerals makeup to even things out and provide some sunscreen (Dr. Helton's advise IS so fabulous, isn't it?).
And thank you for the compliments. I think it really helps the singles/never marrieds to hear from those of us who have been married/in sig relationships that actually following these tips does work! No one single thing does it. It's the campaign of effort, don't you find that to be the case, lady?
All the best,
April BraswellRomance Coach, Online Dating Coach
Not a morning person
Making your skin more beautiful.
Well, ok. Try 30 mins if 60 mins is too much of a stretch for you, lol!
But I do find that with the sunrise being earlier in the day, it's so much easier. Don't you find it affects you, too?
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach
Sonya got it! It's a little limited in my town. Guess I was spoiled in NY. Thinking of moving again...
Sheridan
Go with your demos! Indeed, I think the NY area is great for single (handsome) men. I'm sure you do VERY well. I could tell from your ease and poise in your I am James Bond pose you struck for the photo with Sabrina and me.
Did you notice my subliminally persuasive plant there? ;)
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach
Thank goodness I'm not single. Not that it wouldn't be fun, but no way in Holy Heck am i getting up an hour or even 30 minutes earlier for anyone. It's a good thing you have like 50,000 other ideas, because if I were a single gal and that's what it took to find a companion, then I'd be turning to dust before I found someone!!!!
You're so creative April!
Child Care Expert
You are so cute and darling!
Yup, that's me. 50,000 dating ideas. I never run out. Which is exactly it. My clients indeed balk at an individual idea, "I won't do THAT. Well, maybe just a little...." That's ok. Just do SOME of these.
Think of it like a BUFFET. (Hmmm, note to self, my work as a Romance Coach is like a buffet? Well, yes.)
There are SO many yummy good choices. Indeed, you really CAN't do them all! Or at least not ALL THE TIME.
That's OK.
DO SOME.
Sample.
Mix things up.
You will NEVER be in a rut or out of Easy Dating Tips and Dating Ideas EVER again with me. Just like you said, sweet and beautiful mamma lady!
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach
hey april
you really are creative as can be.
better than cool
lots of love
www.kevinhogan.net
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach
hey, how is www.aprilbraswell.com
did you ever get .net?
might be worth it
kevin
I just haven't done a thing with it yet.
I'm planning on it being my BLUE site for men.
Yes, there is a double entrendre there...... ;)
Oh no, I'm on a roll.
April Braswell... for men.
More subliminals.
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach
again, cause someone really smart and foresightful... my mentor... suggested this.
he's a really wondeful man.
thank God he reproduced both with 2 youngin's and with oh I think thousands he is mentoring....
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach
fantastic read
David
All the best,
April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach